Somebody, the problem with your request was that you have not followed the guidelines to write it properly and provide Full Information about it including information about the persons involved and your ages and whether you are students, or workers.
Any small details count to highlight the problem and provide good personal information about the persons involved in love.
In addition, you have not responded to the notifications including questions and suggestions to write your request properly to get the required Love Problem Solution. This indicates to some levels that you are not serious.
You also wrote it in bad English and submitted your request before reediting it and publishing it here. All of this caused the delay. I wished that you have responded to the first email the system sent to you, so I could provide the solution and publish the page at that time.
* Are you from Mandaluyong City, Manila, Philippines?
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You already explained to him as you said, "I'm not ready or don't want to pass through pain again". So why you bother when he reads your messages and doesn't get back to you?
You asked after all of this "what should I do" and that was very strange. You should know what to do. Just leave him alone, because you caused the problem.
See your own words, "I told him if you want to stop, I'm fine with that" think about these words and then continue the next phrase of the sentence which says, "please don't hurt me". You will see that you were not fine with that, because you feel that you would get hurt if he did stop.
That means, you don't want him to do that. Then you gave him the time he needs to decide whether to continue or stop. He has chosen to stop by not responding to your messages. Your messages also indicate that you don't want him to leave you.
This brings us to the first phrase in your request when you told him that you were not ready to get hurt again. At that point, you had the opportunity to develop this relation and make it successful. But, you have dropped all of that, despite his help to get you out of the pain of your first relation.
Well, if he returned, apologize and show him that you are really grateful for what he did and then develop this relation from there. Use other nice words instead of "you are not ready to get hurt again".
* Are you from Dorval, Quebec, Canada?
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