Don't let your desires destroy the beautiful future life of this love. Treat it rationally as grown up persons. Despite this, there are some confusing details in your request, as you said you wanted him to talk with you more. People can't just go kissing without talking about what matters.
In this case your request is missing the information to know whether you really talked about anything, or not. The confusion in what you said (face to face talk) reveals that, you haven't talked much offline, but only when you chat online.
Even online, you just said that you talked about the kissing, but nothing else that reveals that you are both well knowledgable of the future of such love. As you mentioned your Indian traditions, and of course you both know your cultural backgrounds, you should be aware of such matters and speak about what you should do to legalize this love in your society.
The problem is not clear. What you want him to do? Since you are both (independent = having jobs) you should have spoken about your love and the purpose of it.
There is more than hugging and cuddling in love. Ask him if he loves you or not. Then from his response you could decide to speak more about the future of this love and how to fulfill it to be authorized by marriage. You could also tell him about your parents and their plans and ask him if he is serious, then he should do something.
* We always say, when you write a request, write it properly in a way that we understand what the problem is. Provide as much details as you could to explain it and write it well organized step by step.