She Loves Me but She Admires Somebody Else!

by Abhi
(Kolkata)

I am in love relationship with this girl for 4 years. It was long distance love relationship for more than 2 years.

There is no doubt, she is very genuine and would never like me to suffer from hurt. However somewhere in her mind, she finds me not exciting and not the kind she wanted.

She started since the last year to look for all those features she wants attracted to a guy in her team who is 3 years younger than she is. She cannot stop getting impressed and comparing me with that guy.

She started very close relationship as well with that guy. He is all the time with her and is very caring as well. He has also expressed his liking for her.

Now, she is with me and she accompanies me to all of the important occasions in our area. She calls me everyday to tell me everything about the day. However, 80% of the talk consists of that guy. I sense something is wrong.

Our relationship is very cold now. I find her cold even in the bed. I have shown my jealousy for that guy and also yelled quite a few times.

I do not want to be negative but I really want to win her. I love her. Her behaviour has kept me confused.



Comments:

I didn't get it, as you mentioned you are in love for 4 years and then said, "she finds me not exciting and not the kind she wanted." How could real love begin with such anticipation?

Then, you find her cold even in bed after the relation with the other guy. So, how could you still love her after all of that?

You also said that you "want to win her" from the other guy, as if winning her is more important than making her love for you stronger. It could be different if you said, "I want to get her love as it was before".

I sent you to answer some questions, so I could understand your request better. Nevertheless, I see that she is getting what she wants from both of you and she continues to sell with you at the same time she sleeps with the other guy.

So, what kind of love relation is this?

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