Love is painful and just naseeb, which is from Arabic meaning destiny in India. Sad story starring Amitabh Bachchan in the movie Naseeb.
I am in love with a girl aged 27 years. I am also 27 years old. First, she is my best friend then she became my love. Our love relation is 6 months old. Everything runs fine until the last few weeks.
We have decided that if there is any problem with my parents or hers regarding our marriage, we will not worry and even if any one of us is proposed by our parents to marry with someone else, we will not accept that.
We believe that problems could happen and we can face them when we decide that we want to marry because we belong to different casts. Our main purpose is to help each other and to make our future life the happiest one.
However, her parents forced to marry someone and prepared for the engagement. After few days, the boy started to misbehave with my girlfriend.
His behaviour was irritated her, as he just make lot of orders, such as not to do this job, do not move from home after 7 pm and do not talk with any one on phone etc...
She decided not to marry with him and I supported her decision. Finally, the engagement is off. But, she thinks sometimes that our relationship is the cause of breaking the engagement.
I do not feel good, when she says so. I do not want to cause any problem or feelings of such problem to her. Now I do not understanding or know that what to do?
I am confused because of two things you mentioned in your request, which are contradicted to each other and the last one is not so clear.
You declared that you both agreed to stand against each proposed marriage and then mentioned that her family forced her.
Even here, you were not clear when you said, "However, her parents forced to marry someone and prepared for the engagement." I understood, anyway.
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